Michael: "I don't know anyone who could get through the day without two or three juicy rationalizations.They're more important than sex."
Sam: "Ah, come on. Nothing's more important than sex."
Michael: "Oh yeah? Ever gone a week without a rationalization?"(From "The Big Chill" movie)
We talk about our choices as very rational ones and we can't go a day without rationalizing. It makes us safe, it gives us the illusion that we are not only very clever at what we do but also take very well-thought-out decisions. Ratio means reason in Latin. Rationalization is our defense mechanism, a justification for our decisions and attitudes we use after we acted. The true motives remain hidden, also from ourselves.
We use two techniques of rationalization:
sour grapes - we simply deny our failure by diminishing the importance of the goals we were suppose to achieve. If you can't afford the grapes, you say to yourself "they must taste sour after all"
sweet lemons - we
Image via Wikipediaconvince ourselves that the bad situations, wrong decisions are not so bad after all, they are actually quite a blast - we convince ourselves the lemons taste quite sweet. Take for example smoking. If smokers were rational, they wouldn't smoke, but they post rationalize smoking as sweet lemon - it is the source of pleasure to them, it makes them feel good, they like it, etc.
Rationalization sounds serious but it makes us happier. This is an interesting area for companies that provide services and products to look at - how can we make our clients happier but giving them sweet lemons, making them feel good and clever.